It’s worth noting this represents my first annual report since 2019 that wasn’t written in the throes — or at least the wake — of COVID-19. And yet, the theme this year is sickness, since a ton of non-COVID situations really derailed us this year.
First, there’s how we became sick (in the figurative sense) of many aspects of living and commuting in Toronto. From the difficulties of moving around it, to housing prices and various other ills, the city is wearing on us — and on me especially since I’ve been living there 26 years.
Then there’s the literal sicknesses that disrupted a bunch of our plans this year:
- My reaction to a COVID booster flattened me such that I couldn’t go to a wine club event in May.
- I got sick immediately after leaving my job in August, just as I was about to begin a month of vacation.
- Lindsay and I both got sick at different times on a trip to New York, which caused us to miss a Pavement concert, a Broadway show, and a Janelle Monae concert (and skip the Philadelphia portion of the trip altogether, though Lindsay returned later).
- I got a 24-hour bug while in Moncton that delayed us driving to the farm.
- During our Christmas visit a norovirus ripped through me and half my family. I spent Christmas Day quarantined in bed.
Despite all this, we did get some modest trips in: New York two times; Nova Scotia in May for my dad’s 80th birthday and again for Christmas; Ottawa in June; and Prince Edward County in July. Still nothing off-continent, but we expect that to change next year.
We did also tack on a few weekends away at the nearby Stratford festival, our first time attending. In addition to discovering new favourite restaurants like Lovage (where are ate four times) and Bluebird, we saw four plays over three visits (Women of the Fur Trade, Richard II, Les Belles Soeurs, and the excellent Frankenstein Revived), while also seeing one in Toronto (the crushing Girls & Boys) and one on Broadway (the Tony-nominated revival of A Doll’s House). We seem to have swapped Niagara visits (only one this year, for a Leaning Post 10th birthday celebration) for drives to Stratford.
I also ended up travelling to the Maritimes several times for work in the fall. After leaving the wine industry in August and taking September off, in October I joined a Moncton-based company; not only am I enjoying the job, it’s given me a great opportunity to see my family more often.
We did also manage to enjoy ourselves in Toronto a bit, with dinners out at restaurants (Gare de l’Est, Richmond Station (twice), George, Greta Solomon, Carisma w/ MLK, Ascari, Ardo, Grey Gardens, and Blue Blood Steakhouse, the lone new Toronto restaurant I tried this year…sad), get-togethers with friends (Shannon & Dallas, CBGB for a couple of hours on Thanksgiving, brunch at White Lily with MLK, and Mike & Heather), and out-of-town visitors (Naakita, Patrick, Naakita + Jess, brother #2 and his wife), and a Jays game. No concerts, but we have two lined up in the first few months of 2024.
Our enjoyment of the year was tempered, though, by the worst sickness of all this year: at the end of February, Kramer suddenly fell ill and we lost him just hours later. It was a devastating blow for a still-young cat who’d come so far since we adopted him, and for Lindsay and I who loved him so dearly. It took weeks for the spontaneous tears to wind down; they still come now and then, even ten months later. That’s the sickness that’s reverberated the most throughout our year. Miss you, Kramer. (and Ayce & Aly too.)
As far as our own sicknesses, I recognize that if the worst that comes from them is a few missed concerts or interrupted vacations, then we have it pretty easy. There’s nothing debilitating or life-altering here. All in all, we continue to be safe, prosperous, and (largely) healthy. For that, we’re grateful.
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Annual reports from past years:
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